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March 23 2016

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November 12 2015

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mental health. why awareness matters.

humans, generally, are sociable beings. i just met someone i had been trying to reach for years and it took me almost 10 days to figure out what was so special about that encounter. it felt good to finally be seen, heard and, most of all, understood.

burnout, on the other hand, appears when our efforts are neither seen not valued or maybe even crushed. unfortunately, dealing with peoples helpless reactions to this 'modern' world has been a main theme of my life.
- some sentence crossed my mind a while back. capitalism doesnt only kill people, mostly in countries which are being exploited to this day by colonial structures. in the so-called developed part of the world, it kills peoples minds and sometimes, them along with it.

a dear friend of mine who helped me through the most difficult part of my life, struggling with bare physical survival, would have turned 29 tomorrow. its been almost 6 years since he decided to leave for good.


why am i writing this? as personal as this may sound, it isnt. the part that i would like to be heard is this: we need to pay more attention to each other.
a couple of weeks before my friend jumped off his uni, i met him. i could see that he was all over the place. unfortunately, i was just visiting at the time and had no possibility to prolong my stay. so, i talked to people. i literally told them he was going to do this. i begged them to try and reach him, get some ground under his feet, some food on his plate and a hug when needed. the best reaction to my plea was mild irritation, the worst was people yelling at me, believing i 'had made this up to get attention' (!). in short, nobody believed me. then i got this horrible call, right before christmas, that started with 'i am sorry but you were right...'


its been 6 years next month. 6 years that made me wonder why this had to happen. i know it was his own, conscious decision and given all facts, it is even understandable. but the question remains. is it possible to give someone who has lost himself something to cling to?

i think the answer might be yes. but even if, like in this case, it isnt, i think it should at least be worth a try. i know the feeling of being helpless in the face of other peoples problems.
over the course of 20 years, i have heard all sorts of stories. folks getting beaten, raped, tortured, mostly by their own families or someone else close to them. i have had several friends show up on my doorstep with active psychosis and schizophrenia - one of them was actually a doctor, which ruined any possibilities for calling another doctor, cause it would have cost him his job.

it is by no means a hobby of mine to do this nor do i enjoy any of it. i just happen to be placed at crossroads, so i gotta deal with it.


i am not saying we will succeed every time. i have seen battered women going back to predatory partners, i have seen good folks beating their kids, junkies going from rehab and back in an endless circle. a friend of mine made me sit down with her abusive dad to dinner, for wanting a little bit of normality in her life and an ally by her side - i cant tell you how often i thought of repurposing  that knife i had for eating but after all, it wasnt my call to make.

thats the thing. when people need help, its not about you. its not your choice how to help them, its not up to you to feel shitty/guilty/helpless about any of it. it is your call to listen, though. so, here's my plea:

DONT CLOSE YOUR EYES TO THINGS YOU DONT WANT TO SEE; DONT CLOSE YOUR EARS TO INFORMATION YOU'D RATHER NOT LISTEN TO.

as much as the world hurts you when you look at it, as much do the people in those stories dont have a choice. someone who got raped, escaped from war, someone with a mental health challenge, they all are in a weaker position than you. and they gotta face these challenges anyway. i think the least you can do is try to be mindful, pay attention when someone raises an issue and then DEAL WITH IT.

August 31 2015

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steffen! - completely unrelated to any official government speakers whatsoever ;)

du hattest diesen jungenhaften charme, der mir immer gefehlt hat. du warst wie ein zu gross geratener 15jähriger, der die welt das erste mal mit offenen augen sieht. du kamst da aus washington und hast geglaubt, die welt aus den angeln reissen zu können - du hast alles verkörpert, was menschen durch die geschichte hindurch motiviert hat, auch da hinzugehen, wo es wehtut, in dem glauben, dass die welt das unrecht schon beenden würde, wenn sie nur kenntnis davon hätte. auch ich habe damals geglaubt, dass bilder die welt verändern können. heute weiss ich mehr denn je, wie wahr das ist.
steffen, was ist aus dir geworden? ich habe dich wirklich bewundert, damals, ende der 90er. heutzutage sehe ich dich im fernsehen und möchte eigentlich nur noch heulen. - verdammt nochmal, von der parteizugehörigkeit abgesehen war ich schon immer mindestens so wertkonservativ wie du - ich habe mich damals schon gefragt, wie du den ganzen bullshit dieser bundeswehr-finanzierten 'jugendbildungsstiftung' erträgst - aber vlt habe ich mich auch einfach in dir geirrt. wenn du weiterhin der fratze dieses neoliberalen systems ein gesicht geben möchtest, so be it. vlt schaust du einfach beizeiten mal in den spiegel und fragst dich, was zur hölle du da eigentlich machst?!

February 23 2015

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summer, i miss you...
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like my dear mama put it: oh, dancing trees <3
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July 09 2014

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work ethics

due to the regular trouble you come across in politics, i've spent quite some time thinking about work ethics lately. work, by definition, is labour you get paid to do. ethics means acting noble in the things you do.

nowadays, most of us wouldnt be doing our regular work if nobody paid us for it. how can you ethically fulfil a job and the responsibilty that comes with it, if you wouldnt be doing it in the first place without a financial need on your part? then again, where do we draw this line? there's regular folks who contribute to mass murder.

germany, for example, is the 3rd biggest arms exporting country in the world. we own 11% of the global market. our weapons kill people, including civilians, in countries such as (south) sudan or mexiko, for example. we have no trouble delivering hundreds of tanks to democratic strongholds such as saudi arabia, qatar or israel.


germany is like any other country, most people over here dont mean anyone harm. thing is, even if you're only an accountant in an arms factory, you are part of this problem. i cant understand why we claim all the refugees should 'go back home and sort their problems out'. last week i was talking to someone on the phone and she said 'you know, this friend of mine was talking about those refugees on the berlin rooftop - he said they should jump, since they had no right to blackmail the german welfare system' (!). wtf. seriously, what the fucking fuck. how about the right to a life in dignity??

how do people not see that we are the source of that problem? everyone gets that you can be a nice guy, loving husband and father, regular church-goer or whatever but if you're also the guy driving the train to auschwitz, you're an asshole.


so how come we refuse to take responsibilty? for the landgrabbing we do, the resources we exploit, furthermore, the PEOPLE we exploit and, last but not least, the weapons we deliver to conflict zones?
our wealth is based on colonialism and its effects, which are pretty much still as active as back then. just, somehow we think we are entitled to all of that. even by doing a regular job that doesnt hurt anyone, most of us contribute to this global slave system with the products that we buy. most of us dont really have a different choice, so we basically cement our own misery by enslaving others. why go through all the trouble of having to pay northern germans a fair salary to pick shrimps, when you can ship the load to marocco and have women working under slave conditions. and you can even ruin the environment more effectively in the process. yay. sarcasm off.


just last week, i had an interesting debate with a friend of mine, a nice canadian professor who, despite being a really humble guy, happens to be dean of arts at his uni. when asked where he, as a political scientist, would start changing the way things are being run, he said: education and, most of all, the empowerment of women.

now, whats that got to do with anything, you may ask. well. lets try this approach: as a society who goes by binary gender roles and most people playing along, there are certain character qualities that we perceive as male or female.
most gender-typical jobs go well with those stereotypes, too. so, what do we have? we have a bunch of white, male people running the world. in politics, as well as economics, being 'aggressive' and never compromising are considered character assets. its a male-dominated world in which power fantasies are bigger than humanity.


if we look at the latest development in ukraine, obama was basically called a weakling and a coward for NOT taking immediate military action. right. cause there is nothing more important to doing your job than never giving in.

what sort of world do we live in? we are expected to always win. in a competitive game, there can only be one winner. where does that leave the rest? and what do we gain by 'winning' those fights?
according to some in israel or palestine, it would be a victory to eradicate the other side - i'd say it would be one of the darkest days of humanity and proof that we havent learned anything from the holocaust.


unless you talk to a fanatic, the regular human will tell you that we are all worth the same. how come we arent even willing to help the beggar down the road, let alone the refugee on our doorstep?
sure, the work most of us do doesnt directly harm anyone. but the luxuries we enjoy in our everyday lives were built on the sweat, tears and lives of others. that probably happened around the time when corporations decided to move elsewhere, both regarding taxes and work force.


capitalism puts profit before people, thats old news. i've heard it so many times, i am sick of hearing people say they are just trying to get by - if you're trying to get by and you run someone over in the process, its an asshole mentality and its also where the debate on your personal 'rights' ends.

November 19 2013

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common mistakes

feminism doesn't aim at oppressing anyone, it just aims at giving everyone individual freedom.

we don't live in an equal society. theoretically, we all have the same rights. but please don't hesitate to ask any given single mother, colored or disabled person for their opinion and a description of their daily lives regarding the topic. or google gender pay gap.

feminists dont just want rights for women, we want them for everyone. like, guys are just as qualified to raise kids as women. same goes for trans, queer, whatever. no need for any awesome dad to complain about not raising your offspring; the 90% of single parents that are female would happily share the workload.
we don't think every ballet dancer is gay. same goes for hairdressers. and if they are, we don't care. we don't judge people by their ability to behave according to standard, we judge them on whether or not they are a good person.

we dont wanna make everyone the same. it is, au contraire, society that wants that. but oddly enough, the ones wanting to give every child the opportunity to become the person they wanna be are being perceived as the oppressors. it's quite funny how an autocratic system turns you into an aggressor of you try to tackle the problem. ^^

did you know that children as young as 3y old have learned that a broom belongs to a picture of a woman? this fact drove me so mad, i'm still waiting for all the angry witches to come out of the closet.


78% of all women in indonesia agree that it's ok for a husband to beat his wife if she doesn't wanna have sex with him. this coming from a country where almost a quarter of all guys are rapists. no surprises here. yet, in western countries, people argue that we have a genetic disposition to behave in certain ways. so, are you telling me that having a kid with an indonesian guy, even if he was born in the west, would give a woman a 23% chance of raising a rapist? or do you think the beauty and weakness of the indonesian girls was genetic and the origin of the problem?

you see where this goes, any argument claiming a dead-sure genetic disposition for certain behavior fails to see certain aspects, such as society, education and individual freedom of choice. basically, it dehumanizes is us on a very deep, personal and emotional level.


when people say things like: women are like this, men are like that, they're actively excluding and dissing others. maybe you never thought of it this way, but, for example, by telling me that women were horrible in politics, weak, non-competitive and not meant for leadership, you're assuming i don't have those skills. secondly, once you realize that i in fact need those qualities for my daily work, you're, implicitly, saying i was not a woman. hell, i've had truck drivers patting me on the back, saying i should've been a guy. i'm 1.71m tall and hardly weigh 53kg due to a thyroid condition; i'm not exactly the security personnel type. still, my natural non-emotional way of handling non-personal issues, such as work or administrative stuff, leads to 100% of all people writing my name down as 'alexander' - with me standing in front of them, long-haired hippie girl in 3 colorful skirts.. no kidding.

to link stereotypes in looks to stereotypes in behavior is horrible; to have mismatching looks and personality is a personal disaster. yet this again only accounts for our western societies.
i imagine the female fighters from the israeli army would fail to understand anyone's claim of women being the weaker gender.


i really wish for a society without those binary gender codes. there are so many among us that neither on a hormone nor physical nor social interaction level belong to any of those extremes.
of course you need to put people and their actions into perspective in relation to the world. just, like all clichés, everyday sexism robs us of the opportunity to have any real interaction with someone. also, who knows, you might enjoy wearing pink skirts - took me 20 years though.

everyday life gets more complicated than it needs to be when you make all assumptions based on binary gender code. for example, many women underdress if they want to go food-shopping in peace. on the other hand, some of us use their bodies as a means of getting things... such as money, holiday trips or power. the constant trade of beauty and power turns dating and life in general into a huge maelstrom leading exactly nowhere. we're creating more of what the world doesn't need: shallow human interactions based on stereotypes most of us are struggling to fulfill.


making a general distinction between people has never turned out right in all of human history. we were able to overcome the difference between the nobility and the working poor, we make an effort to eliminate racism, imperialism, and all other sorts of despotic regimes; we should be able to fix this one ;)

July 30 2013

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dear pirates

'so, the pirates are going to hell... well, no wonder with all the shitstorms, interior conflicts and that media coverage... what HAVE you been doing at all that wasnt already in the news?'


it took me some very deep breaths to tell my friend we'd talk about all the different levels of wrongness in a single question after i'd slept for a bit....

we get to hear crap like that all the time. as much as i am an idealist, a hacker and a full-time activist, as much do i hate being a politician.

ok. so we dont have an answer to everything.
ok. so we're mostly beginners in our latest field.
ok. we make mistakes. we fight. we argue. we discuss. at least we try. at least we still talk to each other.

first of, dont get to thinking that any other political party was any different... if only, they are a hell of a lot worse. all other parties have (at least) 3 factions: realists, idealists (whatever they believe in..) and some lose individuals on the edges... what they all have in common is one thing: they vote with the rest of the sheep.

you guys and gals out there do nothing but complain. over a bunch of hard working pirates who really really try their best. you're so busy smashing our work, our hopes and our spirits that you turn a blind eye on the established system which, meanwhile, continues to fuck you over, over and over again.

also: what do YOU do? you rly think voting every now and then is gonna make the world a better place?
and then you keep reading & watching the mainstream media and blame us for the image they're presenting to you. without any sort of reflection.
like, some guys insulting each other on twitter shouldnt be considered news.

dont you realize that someone has an interest in making us look bad? and who might that be?

you dont inform yourselves properly, you use the established channels for getting information and you dont have any second thoughts on the things that are NOT in the newspapers or on tv.

i know that the world has gotten more and more complicated with globalized capitalism but thats no excuse to give up. cause thats what you actually do. you have given in to the system, you believe their propaganda and you accidentally joined the pack of wolves you claim to be fighting...

it's good to be at ohm right now, to try and see things from the outside and come up with new ideas for the upcoming election - cause the atmosphere at work is poisonous, partly because of you, your ignorance and your tiresome questions.

you might wanna look at the local pirate factions homepages... there IS media coverage on all the good things we do. you just need to wanna put a slight effort into it. but since we're actually doing all the work, a little reading on your side isnt too much to ask for, is it?
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February 02 2013

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#aufschrei

liebe pirat*innen, eichhörnchen etc.
mein morgenmuffeltum hat mir gerade ein bein gestellt, noch während ich im aufstehen inbegriffen war. zugegebenermassen waren meine tweets eben etwas undifferenziert und ungehalten, aber die wut, die sich in den vergangenen 2 jahren bei der piratenpartei und in den letzten 32 jahren in der gesellschaft angestaut hat, die musste gerade einfach mal raus.

ja, ich habe ein problem mit marina weisband. kein persönliches, habe sie nur einmal kurz getroffen & dann gleich wieder stehenlassen.
ihr werdet euch fragen warum...

als emanzipierter mensch, als tochter zweier feminist*innen, als nerdige frau, fühle ich mich bei den piraten nicht repräsentiert. wenn man mich zum kegelclub einlädt mit der massgabe, ich solle dieses sagen, das verschweigen und vor allem, mich 'mal anständig anziehen, einen rock und bissl schminke' (!), dann läuft hier was falsch. wenn mir meine kumpels aus dem berliner landesverband sagen, sie hätten marina und zuse nur 'wegen der geilen hupen' gewählt, dann kommt mir das kotzen.
wenn ich dann zu allem überfluss zwei heterosexuelle frauen sehe, die besoffen vor einer horde gröhlender heteromänner rumknutschen, dann verlasse ich die veranstaltung.

systemaffine frauen wie marina, die gleichzeitig vorgeben, uns alle zu repräsentieren, über die möchte ich gleichzeitig lachen und weinen. wie kann es sein, dass wir proklamieren, wir wären postgender, während unsere ehemalige (!) bundespressesprecherin ohne mandat weiter durch die medienlandschaft zieht, und dann mit so einer ausstrahlung? ich glaube nicht, dass die bösen mainstreammedien marina deshalb zur playboy-politikerin des jahres gekürt haben, weil sie so eine eloquente, gebildete frau ist.

und dann dieses elendige gerede, sie wäre politikerin. politiker*in ist imho immer noch ein mensch mit amt und würden. ist ja schade, dass die medien und das establishment nicht einsehen, dass wir themen statt köpfe wollen; noch schlimmer finde ich, dass wir dieses und andere klischees so bereitwillig bedienen.
es ist mir inzwischen egal, ob ich meinen job verliere, weil ich das hier schreibe, oder aus der partei geworfen werde. die richtung, in die wir uns in den letzten 2 jahren entwickelt haben, ist keine, in die ich jemals gehen wollte.

unsere bundestagskandidat*innen geben ein ähnliches bild ab. wo zur hölle sind die ganzen lebenserfahrenen frauen? von einigen angenehmen ausnahmen abgesehen muss man die mit der lupe suchen. da wollen mädels ins parlament, die weder ein studium abgeschlossen haben, das für diese arbeit relevant wäre, noch sonstige kompetenzen mitbringen, die man zwingend bräuchte. einzig das herz am richtigen fleck und ein paar brüste sind noch lange keine qualifikation.

postgender, das heisst, den menschen wählen, der am besten geeignet ist. findet ihr es nicht seltsam, dass 10 jahre jüngere frauen einen anspruch erheben, wenn es besser qualifizierte männer gibt, die den gleichen job wollen? und inwiefern ist das kein sexismus?!

January 02 2013

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we need to talk? YOU need to listen!

dear friends and affiliated lifeforms of all sorts... dear hackers.

the fire created by the incidents that led to the current blogpost from asher wolf (this one here:   http://asherwolf.net/dear-hacker-community-we-need-to-talk/101/   you should read it!) has not even gone out whilst another one has arisen again. my heart is burning with rage and hope both at the same time.

you wanna know why? i just finished my first ever online computer game without being (sexually) harrassed and or threatened.

i have played that game, league of legends in this case, for more than a year now. have an educated guess: what did i do differently this time? right, i paid a shitload of money to change my nickname, from n3rdyg1rl to alphakiller 81.

it was actually my bf's idea, i never thought it would be so easy. i behaved like i always do, i even fucked-up during both games i just played, despite the fact that i usually do great, but still the other people finally treated me like a human. even when i started to rage a little over a teammate, the people did get mad but not humiliating.

wanna know what it used to be like?
it starts with the enemy team, who often greet girls with: 'oh, u a girl? i'm gonna rape you.' (!)

i tried everything, not replying, complaining, explaining, ... nothing rly works. if you expect any sort of sympathy from the others who didnt harrass you in the first place: get out of online computer games. people don't give a shit. those mostly well-bred white male kids chill out at home while their fellow asshole teenagers scare the last girls off the server...

i'm very happy to be old enough now to deal with that crap, and having a bodyguard-trained bf with a lot of courage and a huge heart. otherwise, i think at some point even i might get scared.

its always the same pattern: the loser of the team picks the girl and blames her. even if i was 3lvl further in the game than that idiot, the others would usually agree with him or dont say anything at all. after that, it doesnt matter what you say or do, if you want peace, you can only mute them. :/

you might think now, its just a game.

when people come to your teamspeak server and tell you that now they got your IP and will come over to your home and kill you (! yes, over a freaking 20min round of a stupid game!) i rly think the fun is over.

what actually worked best was to either get my male friends or my bf to talk to them. or horribly threatening them myself. but seriously what shit is this? i dont wanna tell a guy who greets me with rape analogys that i'd love to come over to his place and fist him so hard his eyes would start bleeding, just to shut him up. just to get treated like any other 'normal' gamer.

which brings me to the next step.
do you fellow male citizens rly all believe the world was your playground only? even the more enlightened ones are surprised by girls playing compy games, going to hackercons and showing up at the local hackerspace.

you know what? this may come as a surprise to you but WE ARE IN FACT THE MAJORITY. WE ARE THE 52%

we are the largest minority in history.

and you dont even think about us, unless including sex.

that horrible gang-rape that ended in a tragic and terrible death of a woman who had all her life in front of her didnt leave you speechless. you just didnt talk about it. i dont know a single woman who didnt show severe signs of stress and sadness over the incident - but a lot of guys. you should be ashamed that you dont give a fuck.

instead people have taken to making fun of those who try to make a difference. i almost threw up over the first 5 mins of hacker jeopardy on 29c3. a bunch of privileged, miseducated, well-meaning nerds who didnt even get how insulting their 'jokes' really were.

i dont care how smart you claim to be. if you dont learn to treat women with respect asap, i swear to eris, i will break your freaking noses unless the bad of you (get) shut up and the good finally start acting with us. not for us, not in the patronising way.

seriously, you arent only responsible for what you do but what you let happen to others cause you think its not your problem. it is. as long as you are human.

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September 11 2012

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dear friends

we had so many aspirations when we met

we wanted to change everything for the better
no matter what the future may hold
or so i was told.

some put their memories in the garbage can
- oh man, you have really lost your way
sorry to say.

history is doomed to repeat itself
if you just keep walking
and put yours on a shelf without looking back.

you think you could keep your dreams for tomorrow
but it's never gonna come
if you drown yourself in pity and sorrow.

growing up isn't moving on
its just the same old song.

we had so many aspirations when me all met.
now one of us is dead.



September 08 2012

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"conservatives" - bite my shiny metal ass

after a long and interesting political debate i came to realize something.
politics, globally, is a fucked-up thing. orly, you will think, but i might have an idea how to slip the idea of a better world into the public opinion.

society, nowadays and everywhere, is based on fear. fear of others, like a common interior or exterior enemy, fear of being left behind, fear for your own existence.
humans are designed to adjust badly and slowly to change, yet change, whether we like it or not, is the only thing that is for certain, except for death.

as we talked to a friend from palestine tonight a thought crossed my mind: even the terminology in politics is wrong. and that's a huge part of the problem.
the average human is focused too much on surviving and fitting in with society to care too much about politics. we usually watch some news at night but we don't look too deeply into matters that are either out of our range of interests or geopolitical location.

thing is, the worst mistake we make is the local one. in every country you have a "conservative" entity, party, group of power. they claim they want to stick to tradition and preserve our values...

as i said, the only thing that is for certain is change.
if we still had the traditional laws in europe we used to have in the middle ages, it would be ok to kill someone in broad daylight, as long as you could pay the bloodprice but you'd be hanged for stealing a couple of rolls. not really sure, if that made anyone nowadays happy.

if you take a closer look, tradition usually means protecting the property of a minority, political, religious, military elite, you name it.

conserving vegetables and fruit is great, for a time. but slowly but surely even good things turn bad over time.
pretending to want to conserve values that haven't worked out for most of us is like claiming you'd be willing to eat anything that's been canned for 60 years.

rotten food kills you in the end, even if it keeps you from starvation for a little. it doesn't taste that good, either, from my experience.

if you really want to make a change, start with yourself. that includes your own political groups. as long as we as a global social movement don't get ourselves to overcome (personal) prejudice and work together for a greater good, our political opponents will have no reason to believe anything we say.

may you grow on the obstacles put in your way. hasta la victoria siempre.

September 05 2012

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soviel glanz & gloria
keine substanz, iq wie die orks in moria...
der leere schein von deinem kleinen licht
- ich möcht so gern ein hipster sein
dann schmerzt das leben nicht.

August 28 2012

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August 27 2012

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dear proud parents

it's understandable that you want your children to grow up as free as possible. it's important for kids to be able to play, to enjoy the company of others and express themselves freely.

if you're living in a (sub)urban environment that actually means, you need to take your kids to the next best playground. you know why? cause we have rights, too.
my bf usually works nightshifts, today till 8 in the morning. even though we keep the blinds down while still sleeping, we got woken at midday by some self-centered bitches children who kept screaming right in front of our window (ground floor) for about 10 mins while their cow of a mother was talking to someone.

as i opened the window to check if the noise was going away any time soon, the first thing i heard was an angry: "what the fuck do you want". i said "well, you know, we usually work at night, thx for waking us up." the answer: "it's the middle of the day."

what does that have to do with anything? we are human. we all deserve some quiet and peace and even though it might be legal to let your kids scream like crazy in the daytime: there's a reason why we got so many playgrounds in the city (berlin).
it's not really a question of what is legal and what isn't. i could be having parties till 10pm each day, just... have an educated guess how much our neighbours with children would love that...

what i think you'd need to teach your kids is social skills, responsability and that living together means to make compromises. if you feel your children should be running around screaming all day, why don't you move to the countryside, where nobody cares? stress is known to make people sick, why do you let your kids annoy the shit out of the whole neighbourhood till people get so mad they set your 2k prams on fire?

i actually like kids, just not the self-centered little bastards that get raised by a 40y old mother who believes she's raising the next einstein.

your kids don't need yoga in kindergarten or japanese in grammar school if they come out as antisocial rats who don't know shit about modesty and some consideration on the impacts of your own actions.

i'm currently thinking about breaking my rule not to drink. seems like the perfect day for getting drunk in front of the kindergarten down the road. it's legal, right?

p.s.: dear hipster mom from earlier on: imagine my bf was a doctor and your offspring got sick. you so sure you'd want a doctor to operate on your kids who only slept 4 hours last night?

August 21 2012

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August 20 2012

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